Tuesday 3 September 2013

July 29, 2013 Kia Ora, Y'all

I’m sitting on the beach just outside Auckland. A forty-five minute ferry ride brought us to Waiheke Island, and even in the middle of a New Zealand winter, I couldn’t ask for a more pleasant scene. It’s a great place to cap off my first week here, and even though most of that time I’ve spent jetlagged and culture shocked, I’m thrilled to be in such a marvelous country.
My journey began with my parents and one of my sisters dropping me at Hartsfield, where I caught my initial flight to San Francisco. As I sat waiting to board the long flight for NZ, I thought I’d feel overwhelmed by the thought of leaving the US for the next year. Instead, I felt worry from trying to make sure I found the right gate—and then amusement when I saw that the plane was covered in an obnoxious, giant poster for The Hobbit movies. What a way to leave my homeland, huh? After enduring the grueling thirteen hours in the air, I finally landed, breezed through customs, and met my host family.
I’m living with a wonderful family in Auckland; the house is a short drive from the city’s center, a short walk from a bay, and one step from a lovely park. The weather has been sunny for most of the time I’ve been here, but it started raining as soon as I bought a camera—and the sun reemerged when the camera’s batteries died a couple days later. Sorry—this picture came from a Google Images search and not my own photographic talents. That said, I have seen some stunning sunrises and sunsets since I’ve been here—perhaps I’ll snap one of my own someday.

While I haven’t seen that many sights, per se, I’m continually saturated with new sights, sounds, and experiences. The vegetation is mostly green, even in winter; the buildings are rarely over two stories high, except for downtown office buildings; the water is everywhere I turn, and filled with boats. On the whole, I’m getting used to my environment, but I still catch myself looking around slack-jawed.
The biggest and most obvious adjustments have been the roads and the accent. In case you didn’t know, they drive on the left side of the road here, which threw me the first few days but has been surprisingly comfortable to embrace. Well, maybe not quite embrace—I’ve only driven a couple of times in the city and in the wop-wops on Waiheke—but it no longer feels all that strange.
As far as I know, I’ve avoided bringing disgrace to America through words or action. I’ve been trying to catch onto terms so as to not offend others and to not make a fool of myself, and I’ll compile new vocabulary for readers to learn along with me.


  • Kiwi – a New Zealander. Like the bird, not the fruit
  • Give way – yield. A very important driving term on their roads
  • Flannel – wash cloth. And they’re not even actual flannel!
  • Biscuit – cookie. They would refer to our biscuits as scones, but I’ll teach them about real biscuits before I leave
  • Wop-wops – rural back country, full of pleasantly challenging driving terrain
  • Maori – indigenous people of NZ
  • Te Reo – the Maori language
  • Kia Ora – “hello.” One of the few Te Reo words I can both spell and pronounce
  • Hongi – Maori greeting where two people press their noses and foreheads together. I’m still not sure if this is a real thing or a joke they tell tourists.

Conversation, however, is still sometimes a struggle. The first few days, I thought my ears were still adjusting to the altitude changes of flying, but then I realized they were adjusting to listening to a bunch of Kiwis. I’m employing my hard-of-hearing grandmother’s tactics of pretending to understand folks most of the time, then admitting I have no idea what they said only when I can tell they need an intelligible response. I feel a bit silly constantly asking others to repeat themselves, and it’s particularly challenging to decipher the speech of the small children in my care. Alas, I still find ways to communicate (maybe I’ll convince New Zealanders to use “y’all”), and I’m sure I’ll soon have little trouble understanding those I encounter.
      Despite the many adjustments I’m making (and will continue to make), I’m excited to be embarking on this spectacular adventure for the next year. I agree with the sentiment that a tourist sees what he has come to see, whereas a traveler just sees what he sees. I want to travel because I want to have authentic experiences of life in another country; being an au pair in New Zealand is hopefully the first of many opportunities to live abroad. These newsletters will describe what I encounter overseas and how I interpret another culture, and I look forward to sharing my experiences with everyone!


—Lenora

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