I went bungy jumping
at the first commercial bungy location in the world. It may well be the only time I ever attempt such a daredevil action, but I think it’s an appropriate end to the year which has turned out
to be much different than I envisioned it would be last New Years’. Plus, I
figured I’m far enough away from my mama that she won’t strangle me when she
finds out what I did…
This is an account of my life as an au pair in New Zealand for a year. I want to travel because I want to have authentic experiences of life in another country, so I'll describe what I encounter overseas and how I interpret daily life in another culture. Hopefully this is the first of many opportunities to live abroad, and I look forward to sharing my experiences with everyone! "A traveler sees what he sees. The tourist sees what he has come to see." (Gilbert K. Chesterton)
Monday, 30 December 2013
December 30, 2013 S. Island II: Queenstown, Milford Sound
The tour left Tekapo
and headed farther south, and soon after departing we passed Mt. Cook, which is
NZ’s tallest mountain. Unfortunately the day was so overcast that a thick cloud
surrounded much of the mountain, so I’m still not sure what its peak looks
like. However, our stop at Lake Pukaki at its base still provided a beautiful
sight—but I’ll have to go back someday to take in all of Mt. Cook. We drove on
into more gorgeous scenery, including the Lindis Pass through the Southern
Alps, and stopped to visit a salmon farm and to get lunch. While in Cromwell
for our midday meal, I chatted with a friendly trio of older ladies from
Dunedin who were on holiday and who were most curious to find out how an au
pair’s job works.
However, no views
compared and no description could have prepared me for the following day. We
took a day trip to Milford Sound, a place that everyone raved about but no one
really described; after visiting myself, I understand why that happens, but I’ll
try to provide a substantial account.

The bus drove well
into the Southern Alps. Heavy clouds clung to the mountaintops, and rain pelted
the windshield a few times. The farther we went, the closer and higher the
mountains grew until we entered Fiordland National Park. Heavy rainfall in this
part of NZ gives the area a luscious appearance, and the park is indeed a temperate
rain forest. Trees closed in on the road, but through the branches I saw the
mountainsides become steeper, and saw narrow waterfalls rushing down their
sides. The trees began to thin, and we were surrounded by sharp, gray walls and
peaks topped with snow and covered by even more falls. The road took our bus
through a long, narrow tunnel, and when we emerged the sight only became more
astounding as the mountains and waterfalls increased in grandeur. We wound down
into the valley between the two sides of mountains, and finally a glistening
body of water appeared.
While no one resides
in Milford Sound, a bustling depot for tourist buses and ferries sits next to
the fjord. We boarded a ferry and rode for an hour to the Tasman Sea, and on
the way the mountains remained steep and ominous, and the hundreds of waterfalls
swelled and pounded the rocks. I didn’t remain on deck for the entire journey
due to the icy rain that came and went, but I tried to take in as much as I could.
Even still, when the ferry docked I was just as amazed as I was when we departed.
My wonderment remained as we retraced the long road out of the park, and even
as I reflect on the astounding work of nature that I took in, I struggle to
articulate all that I saw and felt. All pictures here.

I suppose that’s what
visitors to Milford Sound really wrestle with: how to express how it felt. I’ve done a decent enough job
piecing together what I saw, but it’s a place where every other piece of the
environment that the senses can take—the magnitude of the mountains, the
iciness of the waterfalls’ spray, the sound of furious water—all combines to
strike awe and wonderment into any who enter. I can’t speak for every visitor, but
for me, it was a place that made me feel small, yet made me feel truly alive
and part of something bigger. If I take anything away from this trip, it will
be how I felt in the midst of Milford Sound.
December 28, 2013 S. Island I: Christchurch/Tekapo
I now begin the
holiday trip I have been looking forward to since I first considered moving to
NZ: I will spend the next ten days traveling through the South Island. It’s sparsely
populated and filled with awe-inspiring works of nature, and every time the
South Island crops up in conversation, everyone I meet swoons over the journeys
and sights they have experienced here. I’m filled with anticipation over what I’ll
encounter on my trip, which I’ll be sharing with twenty other au pairs from
around NZ.
The first leg of the
trip was an evening flight to Christchurch, the largest city in the south. It seemed
to be a journey through time, because the flying experience I had on this domestic
flight made me feel as if I’d been transported to the 1970s. Security consisted
of my placing my bags through a scanner, and a chatty pair of security officers
glanced at the scan before I gathered my belongings and almost immediately
reached my gate. We boarded at a reasonable time, and the plane took off a few
minutes ahead of schedule. I half expected the pilot to announce the
stewardesses would distribute complimentary cigarettes once we finished takeoff.
The flight landed ten minutes early, and I almost got whiplash from how quickly
I retrieved my checked bag. In short: I’m the newest and biggest advocate for
Air New Zealand.
Because of the tour
itinerary, I spent the night in Christchurch but left early the following
morning. We drove around a few parts of the city’s central business district
and a beach, but unfortunately Christchurch was not the most appealing town due
to its weather and its crumbling buildings. Earthquakes devastated the city’s
center in late 2010 and early 2011—claiming close to 200 lives and destroying
hundreds of buildings—and the city has hardly seemed to recover from the event.
On our brief tour we saw areas in the CBD that were still fenced off, and we
passed a large number of homes that were now abandoned but had once had the best
hillside views of the ocean. However, life goes on, and the dozens of surfers
filling the water at Sumner Beach didn’t seemed deterred to enjoy it despite
the dismal weather and the crumbling city they call home.
We drove south along Highway
One, and I enjoyed staring out the window at the scenery that at first felt
very familiar to me. The motorway reminded me of the many drives I’ve taken
through Georgia (particularly US-441, for those reading at home): the two-lane
highway ran parallel to a railroad for much of the way, much of the view
consisted of crop-filled fields or cow-filled pastures, and every so often you’d
hit a wide spot in the road named after some farmer’s relative. We had a
whistle stop in a town called Geraldine; then our tour continued south, while
we watched out the windows as the terrain began to stretch higher around us
until we made it to the first real stop on the trip.
Tekapo, which shares
its name with the lake it almost falls into, grew from an extremely small town
to a very small town in the last decade thanks to its location (near halfway
between Christchurch and Queenstown) and scenery. Lake Tekapo, a glacial lake
surrounded by mountains, left me speechless. It’s fed by high mountain snow,
and glacial movement scraping rock gives it an unreal shade of blue. We arrived
to town in the late afternoon and viewed the lake first from its rocky shore,
and then we drove to the hilltop of Mt. John Observatory to survey the stunning
sight from above. (Although we didn’t get to visit it, the observatory holds a
special place in astronomical research, so its surrounding areas form one of
only four Dark Sky Reserves in the world.) Our final stop for the evening was
the Tekapo Hot Pools, where we took in the beautiful environment while soaking
our travel-weary bones.
Tekapo pictures here.
December 25, 2013 An Isthmus Christmas
This year marked the
first time that I didn’t spend Christmas in Atlanta with my family. My traditional
family activities include helping my dad lay strings of lights through the
juniper in our front yard, decorating the tree while blasting Mannheim
Steamroller holiday tunes, and joining extended family gatherings on both
Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. It’s a noisy, delicious, happy time of year,
but I figured this will be the only chance for me to see a Kiwi Christmas, so I
decided months ago that I’d spend this December 25th with my host family in
Auckland. Despite the gifts for the kids not arriving on time—although I’m sure
they won’t mind getting another present in January—it was a fun holiday for me.
I turned out feeling
more homesick than I’d expected. I had a long Skype chat with my family during
their Christmas Eve gathering, and it hadn’t really felt to me like Christmas
time until I saw that. The setting, the food, the faces, and even some of the
conversations were the same as always; only after glimpsing into their evening
did I realize what I was missing and wonder if I had made a mistake in not
returning to the homestead for the sacred yearly gathering. However, I still got to laugh with my family
and see them open the gifts I sent from NZ, which means I got to enjoy the best
moments of Christmas.
I really enjoyed
finding out not only how another country celebrates the holiday, but how
another family spends it. On Christmas morning, I loved watching the kids euphorically
cover the living room with toys and gift wrap, and for most of the day I enjoyed
seeing how my host family shared their love and food with each other. The meals
were a delicious departure from what I typically consume at Christmastime, and my
favorite was a raw, cured salmon that my host dad’s mum had made for dinner. We
also shared Christmas crackers, which are paper tube-like wrappers that two
people pull apart from opposite ends; they pop loudly when they split, and
within each is a toy, a crepe paper crown, and a slip of paper with a very
cheesy joke. The kids loved the noisy colorfulness of it, and because we adults
joined in, too, the floor was littered with paper scraps and we all sat around
the table with our multicolored crowns by the time we contentedly munched our
last morsels of dinner.
Even though I often
felt like I was more an observer than a participant at this Christmas
celebration (but hey, I feel that way at my own family gatherings sometimes), I
had a lovely holiday. I’m so grateful that my host family is so welcoming, and I’m
glad I could share a special time of year with them. MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Tuesday, 24 December 2013
Dec 24, 2013 Northland IV: Paihia (day 2)
I spent my last day
visiting the Waitangi Treaty grounds, which I reached on a rental bike since it
was a few kilometers away from my hostel. The Waitangi Treaty was an important
document in NZ history, and I enjoyed learning about it on the site where it
had been written and first signed. Pictures here.
**If you think history is boring, skip to
the next bit of red.**
Created in February
1840, it codified the rights and processes of trade, land possession, and law in
NZ, particularly when it came to interactions between the indigenous Maoris and
the newly-arrived English colonists (who were a rather rowdy bunch). The treaty
officially sealed an agreement between the English inhabitants who remained
under the sovereign British crown and the unified confederation of Maori chiefs
throughout the country. However, as is common throughout European colonialism,
there were a few discrepancies between the two copies of the treaty—the chiefs
signed the one “translated” into Te Reo Maori and the handful of British authorities
signed one in English—however, it still served as a strong and mostly peaceful
document to bridge the two cultures. Thus, it is recognized as the document
that made New Zealand a nation. Don’t you think people who don’t appreciate
history are short-sighted and ignorant?
The Treaty Grounds contain a small visitor center and the handful of sites and objects important to the treaty’s creation or built to commemorate it. This includes the world’s longest ceremonial war canoe, which was built to celebrate the centennial Waitangi Day and holds 120 people at once (and requires 80 to sail). The building where the treaty was written and revised—the home of the English leader at the time—has been preserved, including life-size figures of him and his family, which I found a bit unsettling. There is also a ceremonial waka (a Maori house), which is unique in that it was built to represent all Maori, whereas a waka typically only represents a single tribe. Finally, the Flagpole standing on the lawn resembles a ship’s mast and flies a flag for both the Maori and the English, above which unfurls the NZ flag.
**Whew, you made it! Now for more vacation bits.**
My final activity for
the trip was what I suppose every other visitor to Paihia did first: I spent an
hour on the beach in a bathing suit. While certainly a relaxing activity—and heck,
probably the only time I’ll be on a beach for Christmas Eve—an hour was all my
fair skin needed.
I returned home on an
afternoon-long bus ride, and I savored my last moments riding through
Northland. I thought about all the places I’d been, and how that’s probably the
only time in my life I’ll ever get to go there; how beautiful they were, and
asking myself how they felt and tasted and what they sounded like, so that I won’t
just have photos to take home from this trip. I thought about the amazing,
fascinating, kind-hearted people I’d met and really talked with, and how I might
never have encountered them and realized there were such marvelous individuals
in this world if I hadn’t gotten the guts to travel on my own. Finally, even
though there were times when something happened and I thought, “I wish I had
someone to share this with,” there were far more moments when I thought, “I
never knew I was capable of this.” Those moments made this one of the most
fulfilling trips I have ever taken in my life, because, dang it, it really is
the journey, not the destination.
Dec 23, 2013 Northland III: Cape Reinga
Day three was the
longest. I took an all-day tour to the northernmost accessible part of NZ, Cape
Reinga, and we made some interesting stops along the way. See all photos here.
We drove a couple hours on the highway (which is what they call a winding, two-lane road) and then reached Ninety-Mile Beach. This stretch of sand extends along the northwestern coast toward the Cape, and despite its catchy name, is only 64 miles (and not even 90km). The bus drove the full length entirely on the sand, and often within reach of the waves, all the while with the driver encouraging passengers to approach the front of the bus where he would take his eyes and both hands off the wheel to snap photos for them. He assured us he’d been driving the route for 18 years, and surprisingly I never really felt in danger.
After passing the
narrowest bit of beach we stopped to take in the view, and after that made our
way to the Te Paki sand dunes. Once there, the braver passengers (including me)
trudged to the top of a dune to catch the ride down. I’ve never been one for
heights but after making such a massive climb, I was too out of breath to be
apprehensive about riding a foam board down the slope with nothing but
sunglasses and summer clothing for protection. Even though I my body was caked
with sand once I reached the bottom, the ride was so fantastic that I climbed
up and did it again!
We then headed toward
what I most looked forward to: Cape Reinga. This spot not only marks the
northern tip of the country, but also offers the incredible vantage point to
see the Tasman Sea and Pacific Ocean collide. The ancient Maori held this spot
sacred, because they believed it to be the place where spirits of the deceased
journeyed and then leapt into the water to make their way to paradise. I can
see why someone could take in such a location and perceive it as something
quite spiritual; it was certainly awesome for this traveler. The views really
took my breath away, and it’s one place that I don’t think I’ll ever forget.

After leaving the
Cape, we briefly stopped for lunch (yet another peanut butter-Vogel sandwich
for this girl), where I discovered that two of my fellow passengers on the tour
were Americans. This young couple from Texas was celebrating their tenth
anniversary, and they had already been through the South Island a few weeks
prior. I do love traveling and meeting people from all over the world, but
there’s a certain kind of comfort that comes from hearing American accents (and
Southern ones, at that). Listening to their experience on the South Island—where
I’m headed next week—was definitely a plus as well.
The last stop before
we returned to the Bay of Islands was the Manginangina Kauri Walk. If I hadn’t
already seen a kauri forest a couple of days prior, I probably would have been
in awe of this setting, but at the time my fatigue from all the bus riding
outweighed my interest in seeing more kauri trees. The walk in Whangarei also
extended much farther than this Manginangina walk.
We finally made our
way back to Paihia, where I reflected on how much I had covered in a single day
before once again collapsing on my bed in record time.
December 22, 2013 Northland II: Paihia (day 1)
Paihia was my next
stop. As one of the towns on the Bay of Islands (again, if only all of NZ had
such obvious names), it’s a coastal town with a lovely stretch of beach. I
joined a kayak tour there to better see the bay, and it ended up being one of
my favorite activities from the entire trip. (Pictures here.)
The tour began as one
big reminder that I’m single and will probably die alone: when I tried to
register online ahead of time, I couldn’t because it’s a minimum of 2 people to
sign up; when I did join the tour, I was the only one in a 1-person kayak
(which the guide said capsizes more easily); and one of the other people in
group asked me why my other half hadn’t signed up as well. However, I didn’t
let that get to me, and most of the tour—as I’d anticipated—turned out an absolute
delight (even though I learned that I am absolute rubbish at steering a kayak).
We paddled along the beaches, dug in the shallow waters for clams (I found over
20!) and visited a small island with stunning views. At the end of it I was
shivering, worn out, and couldn’t stop smiling.
To make the tour even
better, I met a family who are probably THE nicest people I’ve encountered in
NZ: a Scottish/English bunch on holiday in Paihia before making their way to
South Auckland to spend Christmas with extended family. During the tour we
chatted about travel, family, and swimming (some of my strongest conversation
points), and when I laughingly told the dad about my peanut butter-Vogel diet,
he invited me to join them at a rib shack for dinner. After I recovered from
hearing such a generous offer, I accepted, and breaking bread with them turned
out to be one of the best experiences during my trip. We talked about where we’d
gone before (their journey to NZ included stops in Dubai and Sydney), and what
we thought of NZ (the mum told me her Scottish uncle said much of the kiwi
countryside strongly resembles the highlands of his homeland).They were
absolutely delightful, and I still can’t get over what a kind gesture they
extended to me.
December 21, 2013 Northland I: Whangarei
I just got home from
one of the best trips of my life: I took four days to travel through some of
Northland, the northernmost region of the North Island of NZ (I wish this
country were covered in such obvious names, but most places actually bear Maori
names that I can spell but rarely pronounce correctly). The entire trip covered
hundreds of kilometers and proved absolutely marvelous, but it was a journey in
more ways than one. This holiday has left an impression on me not only because
of the places I saw and got to experience, but also because it was the first
time I traveled completely solo—on my own dime and relying on my own
resourcefulness. In only a few days, I met people I wouldn’t typically interact
with had I been in my usual mode of relying on other individuals (usually an
older sibling) to sort out details.
When planning the
trip, I knew I wanted to travel as cheaply and lightly as possible, so I look
only a large backpack of clothing and towels, and a small drawstring backpack
for day activities. For meals, I bought a loaf of Vogel’s (a famous NZ brand),
a jar of peanut butter, and some dried fruit—I’d rather spend money on
activities than going out to eat, and I can eat simply for four days if I have
to. My transportation would all be by buses; I had traveled that way during a
trip in Spain with my oldest sister a few years ago, but I hadn’t taken any
public transportation other than a ferry since I’d been in NZ. I was
apprehensive, to say the least, but of course everything went smoothly.
The first stop:
Whangarei, a seemingly small town on an east coast harbor 160km north of
central Auckland. My host parents hadn’t been too complimentary on its “sights,”
so I decided to stick to outdoor activities when planning my stay there. This included
seeing Whangarei Falls, exploring the Abbey Caves, and viewing the city from
its lookout on Mt. Parihaka; I checked their locations throughout the area and
decided I could visit each on foot in an afternoon. The Falls were fine, but
not spectacular; I much preferred the walk that followed it through A.H. Reed
Kauri Park. A peaceful, half-hour stroll followed the Hatea River until I reached
the kauri park, which they call a “canopy walkway” which actually didn’t
include that many kauris (a giant, ancient tree valued for its gum during the
nineteenth century). I found another waterfall—Pukenui Falls—in its midst,
which I viewed from the top and then decided was worth a clamor through perhaps
off-limits terrain to get a closer look.

Afterward, I walked
another hour along country roads to find the Abbey Caves. These were the main
attraction that made me want to visit Whangarei, not only because I haven’t
gotten to explore too many caves, but also because of the glowworms (which are
actually fly larvae) for which NZ caves are well-known. My hostel had rented me
a headlamp, but I really didn’t want to go spelunking on my own (YES, mom and
dad, I do listen to y’all), and by a great stroke of luck, I approached the Organ
Cave at the same time as a family who had experience climbing through the cave.
The dad invited me and a couple of other stragglers to join their party, and
for the next two hours we all explored the Organ Cave—the biggest of the Abbey
Caves, which extends 200m deep. Most of the cave was about 3-5m high and 2-4m
wide, and much of it had freezing ankle-deep water. In some sections we all
turned out our torches, and the ceiling of glowworms shone softly like a starry
sky. The entire way, the rock to the sides was covered in striations from its
ancient formation, and stalactites and stalagmites stuck out wherever they
could fit. For some reason, my pictures kept coming out really dark, but here’s
an image I did capture.

After this I chatted
with the two other stragglers who had joined the family cave tour: two young Asian
women on holiday from their seasonal work south of Auckland. It was almost 6pm,
and when I told them I still had about 2 more hours on foot ahead of me, they
very kindly offered to drive me to my remaining destinations. We then all went
to the lookout at Mt. Parihaka, where we could overlook the city and western part
of Whangarei Harbour. It was a nice view, but I admit that I would have been
very annoyed if I had had to walk an hour uphill to see it. My new traveling
acquaintances kindly returned me to my hostel when we’d all had enough of the
lookout, and I think it took me all of twenty minutes to scarf down a peanut
butter sandwich and collapse on my bed.
So, in a day I conquered
riding a bus long-distance, and I walked and climbed for an entire afternoon. I
also met a kind and adventurous local family, as well as fellow young travelers
who were exceedingly generous with driving me around the town. Whangarei was
exhausting, but I came away with better experiences than I anticipated. Check out all the pictures here.
Thursday, 5 December 2013
December 6, 2013 Thanksgiving in NZ
Folks, I conquered
the harbor. A couple of weeks ago I completed my second open-water swimming
competition, which was a 2.4km race across the Waitemata Harbour just west of
the Harbour Bridge. What an exhausting, but fun challenge! The water temperature
felt quite pleasant, and I improved my pace from my first swim two weeks prior
to finish third in the women’s non-wetsuit division. The only real drawback
about the race was that once we completed the swimming portion, we had to climb
a dozen slick stone steps to reach the finish line—which is tough to do when
your muscles feel like jelly. For full disclosure, I’ve included very
unattractive photos of myself just after I crossed the finish. I defy you to do
a swim like that and be camera-ready.
Another challenge I flung
myself into: baking a pie. On Thanksgiving, I mentioned to my host parents that
it was the first time I was spending the holiday away from home, and they said,
“We’ll have a Thanksgiving here, then! Tomorrow. Make a dessert.” I initially
agreed to a pumpkin pie, but because that’s not a popular ingredient here, it’s
not available in cans. Sweet potato pie, it would be then! I quickly found a
simple recipe online, hit the local grocery store the following day, and
nervously assembled the ingredients that evening. I must say it turned out
better than I expected, but my family is full of talented kitchen-folk, so admittedly
my standards are pretty high. My host family complimented it, and they made a
wonderful meal, so I’m glad I could contribute something to our
mini-Thanksgiving feast.
I was glad to give a little culture back for all that I've taken in, particularly vocabulary. The latest:
- kumera – sweet potato. My host family and I had a debate about the differences among sweet potatoes, kumera, and yams—I had nothing to contribute other than a firm belief that they’re all delicious.
- tin – can (as in, “tinned tomatoes” instead of “canned tomatoes”)
- chilly bin - cooler
- singlet – tank top
-
jandals – flip flops; a portmanteau of “Japanese sandals"
- togs – bathing suit
- arvo – afternoon
- wag – to cut class
- throw a wobbly – throw a tantrum. The girl I take care of will turn two in February, so I may become quite familiar with this…
It hasn’t really felt
like the holiday season, of course, since it’s approaching summertime here. I’ve
been wearing shorts and tank tops for most of the past month, which I find
necessary not only because of the weather but because I still have to chase two
kids around all day. In addition, central heating and air isn’t that common
here, which means that when the weather is hot, you can’t always escape into
the icy refuge of a building. Instead most places (including my host family) simply
open the windows and doors, without worrying about screens, either, so we keep
bug repellent and a flyswatter handy. This cultural difference still surprises
me sometimes, but it really isn’t too bad; I have spent most of my summers
sweating in the Georgia heat, y’all.
The weather also
means I can spend time somewhere I love: the beach. Unfortunately I haven’t
gotten to visit the sands as often as I’d like yet; I took the kids there for a
short walk through the waves one afternoon, and I’ve gotten some quality time
on the shore during my open water swims. However, I know I’ll have ample
opportunity in the near future to sprawl out on a beach towel and listen to the
surf. In addition to time on weekends to take some trips to the water, I should
have opportunities around New Years to travel around, but I haven’t quite made
up my mind where all I’d like to go.
a North Shore beach view of Rangitoto |
I’m thrilled about
all the exciting things I’ll get up to this summer!
—Lenora
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