I went bungy jumping
at the first commercial bungy location in the world. It may well be the only time I ever attempt such a daredevil action, but I think it’s an appropriate end to the year which has turned out
to be much different than I envisioned it would be last New Years’. Plus, I
figured I’m far enough away from my mama that she won’t strangle me when she
finds out what I did…
This is an account of my life as an au pair in New Zealand for a year. I want to travel because I want to have authentic experiences of life in another country, so I'll describe what I encounter overseas and how I interpret daily life in another culture. Hopefully this is the first of many opportunities to live abroad, and I look forward to sharing my experiences with everyone! "A traveler sees what he sees. The tourist sees what he has come to see." (Gilbert K. Chesterton)
Monday, 30 December 2013
December 30, 2013 S. Island II: Queenstown, Milford Sound
The tour left Tekapo
and headed farther south, and soon after departing we passed Mt. Cook, which is
NZ’s tallest mountain. Unfortunately the day was so overcast that a thick cloud
surrounded much of the mountain, so I’m still not sure what its peak looks
like. However, our stop at Lake Pukaki at its base still provided a beautiful
sight—but I’ll have to go back someday to take in all of Mt. Cook. We drove on
into more gorgeous scenery, including the Lindis Pass through the Southern
Alps, and stopped to visit a salmon farm and to get lunch. While in Cromwell
for our midday meal, I chatted with a friendly trio of older ladies from
Dunedin who were on holiday and who were most curious to find out how an au
pair’s job works.
However, no views
compared and no description could have prepared me for the following day. We
took a day trip to Milford Sound, a place that everyone raved about but no one
really described; after visiting myself, I understand why that happens, but I’ll
try to provide a substantial account.

The bus drove well
into the Southern Alps. Heavy clouds clung to the mountaintops, and rain pelted
the windshield a few times. The farther we went, the closer and higher the
mountains grew until we entered Fiordland National Park. Heavy rainfall in this
part of NZ gives the area a luscious appearance, and the park is indeed a temperate
rain forest. Trees closed in on the road, but through the branches I saw the
mountainsides become steeper, and saw narrow waterfalls rushing down their
sides. The trees began to thin, and we were surrounded by sharp, gray walls and
peaks topped with snow and covered by even more falls. The road took our bus
through a long, narrow tunnel, and when we emerged the sight only became more
astounding as the mountains and waterfalls increased in grandeur. We wound down
into the valley between the two sides of mountains, and finally a glistening
body of water appeared.
While no one resides
in Milford Sound, a bustling depot for tourist buses and ferries sits next to
the fjord. We boarded a ferry and rode for an hour to the Tasman Sea, and on
the way the mountains remained steep and ominous, and the hundreds of waterfalls
swelled and pounded the rocks. I didn’t remain on deck for the entire journey
due to the icy rain that came and went, but I tried to take in as much as I could.
Even still, when the ferry docked I was just as amazed as I was when we departed.
My wonderment remained as we retraced the long road out of the park, and even
as I reflect on the astounding work of nature that I took in, I struggle to
articulate all that I saw and felt. All pictures here.

I suppose that’s what
visitors to Milford Sound really wrestle with: how to express how it felt. I’ve done a decent enough job
piecing together what I saw, but it’s a place where every other piece of the
environment that the senses can take—the magnitude of the mountains, the
iciness of the waterfalls’ spray, the sound of furious water—all combines to
strike awe and wonderment into any who enter. I can’t speak for every visitor, but
for me, it was a place that made me feel small, yet made me feel truly alive
and part of something bigger. If I take anything away from this trip, it will
be how I felt in the midst of Milford Sound.
December 28, 2013 S. Island I: Christchurch/Tekapo
I now begin the
holiday trip I have been looking forward to since I first considered moving to
NZ: I will spend the next ten days traveling through the South Island. It’s sparsely
populated and filled with awe-inspiring works of nature, and every time the
South Island crops up in conversation, everyone I meet swoons over the journeys
and sights they have experienced here. I’m filled with anticipation over what I’ll
encounter on my trip, which I’ll be sharing with twenty other au pairs from
around NZ.
The first leg of the
trip was an evening flight to Christchurch, the largest city in the south. It seemed
to be a journey through time, because the flying experience I had on this domestic
flight made me feel as if I’d been transported to the 1970s. Security consisted
of my placing my bags through a scanner, and a chatty pair of security officers
glanced at the scan before I gathered my belongings and almost immediately
reached my gate. We boarded at a reasonable time, and the plane took off a few
minutes ahead of schedule. I half expected the pilot to announce the
stewardesses would distribute complimentary cigarettes once we finished takeoff.
The flight landed ten minutes early, and I almost got whiplash from how quickly
I retrieved my checked bag. In short: I’m the newest and biggest advocate for
Air New Zealand.
Because of the tour
itinerary, I spent the night in Christchurch but left early the following
morning. We drove around a few parts of the city’s central business district
and a beach, but unfortunately Christchurch was not the most appealing town due
to its weather and its crumbling buildings. Earthquakes devastated the city’s
center in late 2010 and early 2011—claiming close to 200 lives and destroying
hundreds of buildings—and the city has hardly seemed to recover from the event.
On our brief tour we saw areas in the CBD that were still fenced off, and we
passed a large number of homes that were now abandoned but had once had the best
hillside views of the ocean. However, life goes on, and the dozens of surfers
filling the water at Sumner Beach didn’t seemed deterred to enjoy it despite
the dismal weather and the crumbling city they call home.
We drove south along Highway
One, and I enjoyed staring out the window at the scenery that at first felt
very familiar to me. The motorway reminded me of the many drives I’ve taken
through Georgia (particularly US-441, for those reading at home): the two-lane
highway ran parallel to a railroad for much of the way, much of the view
consisted of crop-filled fields or cow-filled pastures, and every so often you’d
hit a wide spot in the road named after some farmer’s relative. We had a
whistle stop in a town called Geraldine; then our tour continued south, while
we watched out the windows as the terrain began to stretch higher around us
until we made it to the first real stop on the trip.
Tekapo, which shares
its name with the lake it almost falls into, grew from an extremely small town
to a very small town in the last decade thanks to its location (near halfway
between Christchurch and Queenstown) and scenery. Lake Tekapo, a glacial lake
surrounded by mountains, left me speechless. It’s fed by high mountain snow,
and glacial movement scraping rock gives it an unreal shade of blue. We arrived
to town in the late afternoon and viewed the lake first from its rocky shore,
and then we drove to the hilltop of Mt. John Observatory to survey the stunning
sight from above. (Although we didn’t get to visit it, the observatory holds a
special place in astronomical research, so its surrounding areas form one of
only four Dark Sky Reserves in the world.) Our final stop for the evening was
the Tekapo Hot Pools, where we took in the beautiful environment while soaking
our travel-weary bones.
Tekapo pictures here.
December 25, 2013 An Isthmus Christmas
This year marked the
first time that I didn’t spend Christmas in Atlanta with my family. My traditional
family activities include helping my dad lay strings of lights through the
juniper in our front yard, decorating the tree while blasting Mannheim
Steamroller holiday tunes, and joining extended family gatherings on both
Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. It’s a noisy, delicious, happy time of year,
but I figured this will be the only chance for me to see a Kiwi Christmas, so I
decided months ago that I’d spend this December 25th with my host family in
Auckland. Despite the gifts for the kids not arriving on time—although I’m sure
they won’t mind getting another present in January—it was a fun holiday for me.
I turned out feeling
more homesick than I’d expected. I had a long Skype chat with my family during
their Christmas Eve gathering, and it hadn’t really felt to me like Christmas
time until I saw that. The setting, the food, the faces, and even some of the
conversations were the same as always; only after glimpsing into their evening
did I realize what I was missing and wonder if I had made a mistake in not
returning to the homestead for the sacred yearly gathering. However, I still got to laugh with my family
and see them open the gifts I sent from NZ, which means I got to enjoy the best
moments of Christmas.
I really enjoyed
finding out not only how another country celebrates the holiday, but how
another family spends it. On Christmas morning, I loved watching the kids euphorically
cover the living room with toys and gift wrap, and for most of the day I enjoyed
seeing how my host family shared their love and food with each other. The meals
were a delicious departure from what I typically consume at Christmastime, and my
favorite was a raw, cured salmon that my host dad’s mum had made for dinner. We
also shared Christmas crackers, which are paper tube-like wrappers that two
people pull apart from opposite ends; they pop loudly when they split, and
within each is a toy, a crepe paper crown, and a slip of paper with a very
cheesy joke. The kids loved the noisy colorfulness of it, and because we adults
joined in, too, the floor was littered with paper scraps and we all sat around
the table with our multicolored crowns by the time we contentedly munched our
last morsels of dinner.
Even though I often
felt like I was more an observer than a participant at this Christmas
celebration (but hey, I feel that way at my own family gatherings sometimes), I
had a lovely holiday. I’m so grateful that my host family is so welcoming, and I’m
glad I could share a special time of year with them. MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Tuesday, 24 December 2013
Dec 24, 2013 Northland IV: Paihia (day 2)
I spent my last day
visiting the Waitangi Treaty grounds, which I reached on a rental bike since it
was a few kilometers away from my hostel. The Waitangi Treaty was an important
document in NZ history, and I enjoyed learning about it on the site where it
had been written and first signed. Pictures here.
**If you think history is boring, skip to
the next bit of red.**
Created in February
1840, it codified the rights and processes of trade, land possession, and law in
NZ, particularly when it came to interactions between the indigenous Maoris and
the newly-arrived English colonists (who were a rather rowdy bunch). The treaty
officially sealed an agreement between the English inhabitants who remained
under the sovereign British crown and the unified confederation of Maori chiefs
throughout the country. However, as is common throughout European colonialism,
there were a few discrepancies between the two copies of the treaty—the chiefs
signed the one “translated” into Te Reo Maori and the handful of British authorities
signed one in English—however, it still served as a strong and mostly peaceful
document to bridge the two cultures. Thus, it is recognized as the document
that made New Zealand a nation. Don’t you think people who don’t appreciate
history are short-sighted and ignorant?
The Treaty Grounds contain a small visitor center and the handful of sites and objects important to the treaty’s creation or built to commemorate it. This includes the world’s longest ceremonial war canoe, which was built to celebrate the centennial Waitangi Day and holds 120 people at once (and requires 80 to sail). The building where the treaty was written and revised—the home of the English leader at the time—has been preserved, including life-size figures of him and his family, which I found a bit unsettling. There is also a ceremonial waka (a Maori house), which is unique in that it was built to represent all Maori, whereas a waka typically only represents a single tribe. Finally, the Flagpole standing on the lawn resembles a ship’s mast and flies a flag for both the Maori and the English, above which unfurls the NZ flag.
**Whew, you made it! Now for more vacation bits.**
My final activity for
the trip was what I suppose every other visitor to Paihia did first: I spent an
hour on the beach in a bathing suit. While certainly a relaxing activity—and heck,
probably the only time I’ll be on a beach for Christmas Eve—an hour was all my
fair skin needed.
I returned home on an
afternoon-long bus ride, and I savored my last moments riding through
Northland. I thought about all the places I’d been, and how that’s probably the
only time in my life I’ll ever get to go there; how beautiful they were, and
asking myself how they felt and tasted and what they sounded like, so that I won’t
just have photos to take home from this trip. I thought about the amazing,
fascinating, kind-hearted people I’d met and really talked with, and how I might
never have encountered them and realized there were such marvelous individuals
in this world if I hadn’t gotten the guts to travel on my own. Finally, even
though there were times when something happened and I thought, “I wish I had
someone to share this with,” there were far more moments when I thought, “I
never knew I was capable of this.” Those moments made this one of the most
fulfilling trips I have ever taken in my life, because, dang it, it really is
the journey, not the destination.
Dec 23, 2013 Northland III: Cape Reinga
Day three was the
longest. I took an all-day tour to the northernmost accessible part of NZ, Cape
Reinga, and we made some interesting stops along the way. See all photos here.
We drove a couple hours on the highway (which is what they call a winding, two-lane road) and then reached Ninety-Mile Beach. This stretch of sand extends along the northwestern coast toward the Cape, and despite its catchy name, is only 64 miles (and not even 90km). The bus drove the full length entirely on the sand, and often within reach of the waves, all the while with the driver encouraging passengers to approach the front of the bus where he would take his eyes and both hands off the wheel to snap photos for them. He assured us he’d been driving the route for 18 years, and surprisingly I never really felt in danger.
After passing the
narrowest bit of beach we stopped to take in the view, and after that made our
way to the Te Paki sand dunes. Once there, the braver passengers (including me)
trudged to the top of a dune to catch the ride down. I’ve never been one for
heights but after making such a massive climb, I was too out of breath to be
apprehensive about riding a foam board down the slope with nothing but
sunglasses and summer clothing for protection. Even though I my body was caked
with sand once I reached the bottom, the ride was so fantastic that I climbed
up and did it again!
We then headed toward
what I most looked forward to: Cape Reinga. This spot not only marks the
northern tip of the country, but also offers the incredible vantage point to
see the Tasman Sea and Pacific Ocean collide. The ancient Maori held this spot
sacred, because they believed it to be the place where spirits of the deceased
journeyed and then leapt into the water to make their way to paradise. I can
see why someone could take in such a location and perceive it as something
quite spiritual; it was certainly awesome for this traveler. The views really
took my breath away, and it’s one place that I don’t think I’ll ever forget.

After leaving the
Cape, we briefly stopped for lunch (yet another peanut butter-Vogel sandwich
for this girl), where I discovered that two of my fellow passengers on the tour
were Americans. This young couple from Texas was celebrating their tenth
anniversary, and they had already been through the South Island a few weeks
prior. I do love traveling and meeting people from all over the world, but
there’s a certain kind of comfort that comes from hearing American accents (and
Southern ones, at that). Listening to their experience on the South Island—where
I’m headed next week—was definitely a plus as well.
The last stop before
we returned to the Bay of Islands was the Manginangina Kauri Walk. If I hadn’t
already seen a kauri forest a couple of days prior, I probably would have been
in awe of this setting, but at the time my fatigue from all the bus riding
outweighed my interest in seeing more kauri trees. The walk in Whangarei also
extended much farther than this Manginangina walk.
We finally made our
way back to Paihia, where I reflected on how much I had covered in a single day
before once again collapsing on my bed in record time.
December 22, 2013 Northland II: Paihia (day 1)
Paihia was my next
stop. As one of the towns on the Bay of Islands (again, if only all of NZ had
such obvious names), it’s a coastal town with a lovely stretch of beach. I
joined a kayak tour there to better see the bay, and it ended up being one of
my favorite activities from the entire trip. (Pictures here.)
The tour began as one
big reminder that I’m single and will probably die alone: when I tried to
register online ahead of time, I couldn’t because it’s a minimum of 2 people to
sign up; when I did join the tour, I was the only one in a 1-person kayak
(which the guide said capsizes more easily); and one of the other people in
group asked me why my other half hadn’t signed up as well. However, I didn’t
let that get to me, and most of the tour—as I’d anticipated—turned out an absolute
delight (even though I learned that I am absolute rubbish at steering a kayak).
We paddled along the beaches, dug in the shallow waters for clams (I found over
20!) and visited a small island with stunning views. At the end of it I was
shivering, worn out, and couldn’t stop smiling.
To make the tour even
better, I met a family who are probably THE nicest people I’ve encountered in
NZ: a Scottish/English bunch on holiday in Paihia before making their way to
South Auckland to spend Christmas with extended family. During the tour we
chatted about travel, family, and swimming (some of my strongest conversation
points), and when I laughingly told the dad about my peanut butter-Vogel diet,
he invited me to join them at a rib shack for dinner. After I recovered from
hearing such a generous offer, I accepted, and breaking bread with them turned
out to be one of the best experiences during my trip. We talked about where we’d
gone before (their journey to NZ included stops in Dubai and Sydney), and what
we thought of NZ (the mum told me her Scottish uncle said much of the kiwi
countryside strongly resembles the highlands of his homeland).They were
absolutely delightful, and I still can’t get over what a kind gesture they
extended to me.
December 21, 2013 Northland I: Whangarei
I just got home from
one of the best trips of my life: I took four days to travel through some of
Northland, the northernmost region of the North Island of NZ (I wish this
country were covered in such obvious names, but most places actually bear Maori
names that I can spell but rarely pronounce correctly). The entire trip covered
hundreds of kilometers and proved absolutely marvelous, but it was a journey in
more ways than one. This holiday has left an impression on me not only because
of the places I saw and got to experience, but also because it was the first
time I traveled completely solo—on my own dime and relying on my own
resourcefulness. In only a few days, I met people I wouldn’t typically interact
with had I been in my usual mode of relying on other individuals (usually an
older sibling) to sort out details.
When planning the
trip, I knew I wanted to travel as cheaply and lightly as possible, so I look
only a large backpack of clothing and towels, and a small drawstring backpack
for day activities. For meals, I bought a loaf of Vogel’s (a famous NZ brand),
a jar of peanut butter, and some dried fruit—I’d rather spend money on
activities than going out to eat, and I can eat simply for four days if I have
to. My transportation would all be by buses; I had traveled that way during a
trip in Spain with my oldest sister a few years ago, but I hadn’t taken any
public transportation other than a ferry since I’d been in NZ. I was
apprehensive, to say the least, but of course everything went smoothly.
The first stop:
Whangarei, a seemingly small town on an east coast harbor 160km north of
central Auckland. My host parents hadn’t been too complimentary on its “sights,”
so I decided to stick to outdoor activities when planning my stay there. This included
seeing Whangarei Falls, exploring the Abbey Caves, and viewing the city from
its lookout on Mt. Parihaka; I checked their locations throughout the area and
decided I could visit each on foot in an afternoon. The Falls were fine, but
not spectacular; I much preferred the walk that followed it through A.H. Reed
Kauri Park. A peaceful, half-hour stroll followed the Hatea River until I reached
the kauri park, which they call a “canopy walkway” which actually didn’t
include that many kauris (a giant, ancient tree valued for its gum during the
nineteenth century). I found another waterfall—Pukenui Falls—in its midst,
which I viewed from the top and then decided was worth a clamor through perhaps
off-limits terrain to get a closer look.

Afterward, I walked
another hour along country roads to find the Abbey Caves. These were the main
attraction that made me want to visit Whangarei, not only because I haven’t
gotten to explore too many caves, but also because of the glowworms (which are
actually fly larvae) for which NZ caves are well-known. My hostel had rented me
a headlamp, but I really didn’t want to go spelunking on my own (YES, mom and
dad, I do listen to y’all), and by a great stroke of luck, I approached the Organ
Cave at the same time as a family who had experience climbing through the cave.
The dad invited me and a couple of other stragglers to join their party, and
for the next two hours we all explored the Organ Cave—the biggest of the Abbey
Caves, which extends 200m deep. Most of the cave was about 3-5m high and 2-4m
wide, and much of it had freezing ankle-deep water. In some sections we all
turned out our torches, and the ceiling of glowworms shone softly like a starry
sky. The entire way, the rock to the sides was covered in striations from its
ancient formation, and stalactites and stalagmites stuck out wherever they
could fit. For some reason, my pictures kept coming out really dark, but here’s
an image I did capture.

After this I chatted
with the two other stragglers who had joined the family cave tour: two young Asian
women on holiday from their seasonal work south of Auckland. It was almost 6pm,
and when I told them I still had about 2 more hours on foot ahead of me, they
very kindly offered to drive me to my remaining destinations. We then all went
to the lookout at Mt. Parihaka, where we could overlook the city and western part
of Whangarei Harbour. It was a nice view, but I admit that I would have been
very annoyed if I had had to walk an hour uphill to see it. My new traveling
acquaintances kindly returned me to my hostel when we’d all had enough of the
lookout, and I think it took me all of twenty minutes to scarf down a peanut
butter sandwich and collapse on my bed.
So, in a day I conquered
riding a bus long-distance, and I walked and climbed for an entire afternoon. I
also met a kind and adventurous local family, as well as fellow young travelers
who were exceedingly generous with driving me around the town. Whangarei was
exhausting, but I came away with better experiences than I anticipated. Check out all the pictures here.
Thursday, 5 December 2013
December 6, 2013 Thanksgiving in NZ
Folks, I conquered
the harbor. A couple of weeks ago I completed my second open-water swimming
competition, which was a 2.4km race across the Waitemata Harbour just west of
the Harbour Bridge. What an exhausting, but fun challenge! The water temperature
felt quite pleasant, and I improved my pace from my first swim two weeks prior
to finish third in the women’s non-wetsuit division. The only real drawback
about the race was that once we completed the swimming portion, we had to climb
a dozen slick stone steps to reach the finish line—which is tough to do when
your muscles feel like jelly. For full disclosure, I’ve included very
unattractive photos of myself just after I crossed the finish. I defy you to do
a swim like that and be camera-ready.
Another challenge I flung
myself into: baking a pie. On Thanksgiving, I mentioned to my host parents that
it was the first time I was spending the holiday away from home, and they said,
“We’ll have a Thanksgiving here, then! Tomorrow. Make a dessert.” I initially
agreed to a pumpkin pie, but because that’s not a popular ingredient here, it’s
not available in cans. Sweet potato pie, it would be then! I quickly found a
simple recipe online, hit the local grocery store the following day, and
nervously assembled the ingredients that evening. I must say it turned out
better than I expected, but my family is full of talented kitchen-folk, so admittedly
my standards are pretty high. My host family complimented it, and they made a
wonderful meal, so I’m glad I could contribute something to our
mini-Thanksgiving feast.
I was glad to give a little culture back for all that I've taken in, particularly vocabulary. The latest:
- kumera – sweet potato. My host family and I had a debate about the differences among sweet potatoes, kumera, and yams—I had nothing to contribute other than a firm belief that they’re all delicious.
- tin – can (as in, “tinned tomatoes” instead of “canned tomatoes”)
- chilly bin - cooler
- singlet – tank top
-
jandals – flip flops; a portmanteau of “Japanese sandals"
- togs – bathing suit
- arvo – afternoon
- wag – to cut class
- throw a wobbly – throw a tantrum. The girl I take care of will turn two in February, so I may become quite familiar with this…
It hasn’t really felt
like the holiday season, of course, since it’s approaching summertime here. I’ve
been wearing shorts and tank tops for most of the past month, which I find
necessary not only because of the weather but because I still have to chase two
kids around all day. In addition, central heating and air isn’t that common
here, which means that when the weather is hot, you can’t always escape into
the icy refuge of a building. Instead most places (including my host family) simply
open the windows and doors, without worrying about screens, either, so we keep
bug repellent and a flyswatter handy. This cultural difference still surprises
me sometimes, but it really isn’t too bad; I have spent most of my summers
sweating in the Georgia heat, y’all.
The weather also
means I can spend time somewhere I love: the beach. Unfortunately I haven’t
gotten to visit the sands as often as I’d like yet; I took the kids there for a
short walk through the waves one afternoon, and I’ve gotten some quality time
on the shore during my open water swims. However, I know I’ll have ample
opportunity in the near future to sprawl out on a beach towel and listen to the
surf. In addition to time on weekends to take some trips to the water, I should
have opportunities around New Years to travel around, but I haven’t quite made
up my mind where all I’d like to go.
a North Shore beach view of Rangitoto |
I’m thrilled about
all the exciting things I’ll get up to this summer!
—Lenora
Monday, 11 November 2013
November 12, 2013 What the Fawkes Say?
I’m happy to say that
I’ve continued to look outside the box for things to do in these last few
weeks. My host family and I have moved a few kilometers down the road, so I’ve
been dealing with packing and unpacking and numerous other transitions—like not
having internet at the house for almost three weeks. However, in between hunting
for new local haunts, I’ve had ample options to experience some culture since a
few holidays have occurred in that time.
Diwali, a traditional
Indian festival, has gone on for a couple of weeks, and attended part of the
city-sponsored celebrations one Sunday afternoon. I got to spend time with a
friend and some of her extended family, which made me feel like I better
understood what was going on; one of the city’s main streets downtown was shut
down, had I wandered alone through the large area filled with vendors and
performances, I probably wouldn’t have enjoyed myself nearly as much. My friend
helps her mother-in-law teach traditional Indian dance, and after watching the
students put on a marvelous performance on the main stage, I met with her
family and happily joined them as they tried the goods from various food stalls
(I discovered that I like Falooda and Samosas). Seeing the celebration, even in
a more commercialized setting, was still exciting, because I usually enjoy
getting to experience a bit of other cultures.
Labour Day also came
along, and since I got the day off for this national holiday, I decided to do
the most touristy thing possible in NZ: go to Hobbiton. When I told people back
home that I would be moving here, they often asked me if I would visit the site
of the hobbits’ hometown in The Lord of
the Rings movies, so I felt almost obligated to journey to the set just
outside Matamata. While I can’t claim to be a tremendous fan of the series, I
did enjoy the location and certainly appreciate the attention to detail in
creating the set for a fantasy world—and I took plenty of photos. The drive a
hundred miles south of central Auckland and back was the more pleasant part of
the trip for me; I have loved being behind the wheel ever since I got the
chance, and getting to wind through the countryside with mountains and
sheep-filled fields all around made for a lovely journey.
The other big holiday
was Guy Fawkes Night, which is just a noisy enigma to this newcomer. It’s an English
holiday celebrating Catholic extremists’ failed attempt to assassinate
Protestant King James I in 1605 (Guy Fawkes was only one of the members
involved), and NZ’s English colonization meant that the celebration is popular
here. However, I gleaned from numerous newspaper articles this week and from
overheard conversations that this has become a celebration devoid of its
original meaning—but most holidays are, I think—and has evolved into an excuse
for hooligans to run amuck. After hearing backyard fireworks go off every night
for over a week, I kind of agree with such a sentiment. November fifth is the
actual date, so because of the date some naysayers lump it in with Halloween as
a commercial blight on society. In any case, I’m still not sure why it’s a big
deal to anyone, so chalk it up to cultural differences.
On a more positive
note, I have found some new words I think I’ll be throwing into conversation:
- chocka - full
- biff - throw
- gun (adj) - good; Ex: a gun athlete
The last—and for me,
most exciting—new venture of late has been my first open water swim. It was in
the Auckland Harbour, and although the course called for us to round a small
island instead of crossing the harbor, it was still in very deep water. And the
water was FREEZING: when I first got in, I was trying to inhale and couldn’t
feel whether I was actually breathing or not, but after a short 100-meter warm-up,
I decided my body wasn’t actually shutting down. I raced far better than I expected,
especially since I really didn’t get a chance to do stroke work specific to open
water, which is supposedly different from the pool swimming I’ve been doing my
whole life. That meant that my speed was alright, but I kept changing
direction, bumping into other competitors, and I never found the third buoy I was
supposed to round. Despite those few detractors, I really loved it, and I’m
looking forward to finding more swims nearby to attempt—hopefully one that
crosses the entire harbor.
The harbour bridge--across the waterway I'd like to attempt to swim! |
Until next time!
—Lenora
Oct 19, 2013 To New Things
Just deciding to move
to another country—which is way out of my comfort zone—was something that took
a long time for me to push myself to do. Now that I’ve been here awhile, I
resolved to try things that I’d never done at home, and in the past couple
weeks I’ve done a decent job of ticking a few boxes for things on that list.
First up: a Morris
Dancing workshop. Oh, you’ve never heard of that particular genre? This
Auckland Heritage Festival event advertised that anyone who could “hop, skip,
and wave” could do this dance, so I convinced a friend to join me for an
evening of learning moves from this traditional English dance. A local Morris
team held the workshop, I was easily the youngest attendee by about 30 years,
which meant that I was the spryest, but the moves were not easy to pick up! I
gleaned that jig movement drives the footwork, but the dance also includes
waving scarves and beating sticks, which my experience of choreography in high
school musical productions hardly prepared me for. One thing I definitely like
is that the musicians—ours played a violin, accordion, and woodwinds—are an
integral part of the dance performance, not an add-on. In general I enjoyed
myself, and I admire the many individuals in their 60s who regularly train and
perform the Morris.
The next departure
from my comfort zone came in the form of a horseback riding trip on the western
coast. I hadn’t been on a horse since childhood (and that was only a couple
times at a camp), but an event came up that advertised beautiful rural scenery,
so I figured I should go for it. The excursion seemed like a great idea until
the moment when I actually climbed onto the horse, and I immediately thought, “Mistake.”
I had suddenly realized that I sat a fair height off the ground with options to
hold onto a measly set of reins or a beat-up saddle, so I began making plans
for how I should react when I would inevitably start falling off the horse—leaning
forward to grab its neck would be my first move, but a swift
barrel-roll to the ground was the backup plan.
Our guides had told me
that mine was a “quiet” horse, and while I hoped I would be atop a creature
that would pace himself like an enthusiastic mall-walker, my equine companion turned out
to be less than ideal for my taste. He’d slow down the line, even though I kept
digging my heels into his sides—then he’d run
to catch up to the horse in front of us, bouncing me around like a rag-doll,
despite my best efforts to channel The
Man from Snowy River. He’d also bend down to grab a mouthful of whatever plant
grew near his hoof whenever we stopped, so during every break I couldn’t relax
or take a quick photo (although I got a handful) for fear that I’d lose the
rein. There are just some things for which a suburban upbringing did not
prepare me.
Despite the horse
riding itself, I did enjoy the outing. The rural areas really are beautiful:
the steep, green hills extend for miles around, and they’re mostly dotted with
sheep and cows. We also went through wooded areas, and when the Tasman Sea came
into view, we were close enough to hear the surf. I felt like I had stepped
into a nineteenth century English novel, and for someone whose favorite book is
Jane Eyre, that made my day. Although
I ached for the next few days, I’m glad I tried something different, even if it
was just to find out that I never want to try it again.
A couple of new things
have been workout-oriented. Since my water polo team only convenes for
sporadically-scheduled games, I looked for other aquatic workout options and
decided to try my hand at open water swimming. To train, I joined a master’s
swim team, and although the practices aren’t that strenuous, I’m glad to spend
more time in the water on a regular basis. The other exercise venture has been
a boot camp that meets three mornings a week; I’ve only completed the first
week, but I can already tell my running has improved at least.
The final, and perhaps
my favorite, new thing that I’ve experienced, was visiting the Auckland Zoo. My
two charges often visit the zoo, so for them the outing wasn’t too far out of
the ordinary; the last time I went to a zoo was when I was in kindergarten, so I
had an absolute blast! We’ve visited the park’s extensive grounds a few times
now, and we only get about an hour and a half to wander each time, but I’ve got
to see a vast array of animals. The marquee names are the red pandas (which,
granted, are kind of just glorified raccoons) and the new baby giraffe, but one of my favorites was this ape. Somehow my carting around two small children prevented my getting a chance to take note of what this is, but I'll find out next time. I look forward to many more
trips there!
In general I had a fun
few weeks full of new experiences, and I hope to continue that trend. As for
the new words I’ve picked up:
- kit - attire
- brumby - a loose woman (it's a wild Australian horse). This term is funnier to anyone who went to UGA and knows the only all-female dorm there is Brumby Hall.
- box of fluffies - it's all good
- felless - female equivalent of "fella"
—Lenora
Friday, 4 October 2013
October 4, 2013 What's the America's Cup?
I’ve had a fantastic
past two weeks—in that short time, I got to witness some great Kiwi patriotism,
experience a bit of local culture, and see some really lovely outdoor scenery.
Most of it renewed my positive feelings for where I am, and few things also
sparked some reflection on where I came from as an American.
Scenery is probably
what folks back home want to hear about most. I drove with a friend to Piha, a
beach less than 40 kilometers west of Auckland on the Tasman Sea, where I got
to see a few things I’d never seen at a beach. Ancient volcanic activity gives
the “black” sand its color, and it also left behind Lion’s Rock (Te Piha), the
large rock that serves as a landmark and tourist attraction for the area. First
we ascended Lion’s Rock, and if the scenery hadn’t already taken my breath
away, the climb would have (actually, it wasn’t too bad since there were
newly-carved steps along most of the way). However, I still preferred the sand
below: its color helps it absorb more heat from the sun, and it was so finely
ground that it was heaven to pad along the stretch of the beach barefoot. I had
a fantastic afternoon, and after this trip and the earlier one to Waiheke, I
think I’d be very happy to live at a beach here year-round someday.
Coastal life plays a
big role in life here—in fact, sixty-five percent of this nation’s population
lives within five kilometers of the coast—and this manifests most notably in
the sport of sailing, which I found out recently in the form of the America’s
Cup. I’m afraid I actually can’t explain it since I’m still not sure how it
works, but I’ll tell my ignorant experience of it anyway. For the past few
weeks it was THE news story around here (as in, front page every morning and
lead story of every TV news report), so I gleaned that it was something to do with
a sailing competition in San Francisco between a team from NZ and an American
team. Due to those nationalities, I jumped at the chance to join my host family
last Sunday when they attended a gathering with hundreds of other Kiwis at
Queens Wharf to watch big screen coverage of what could have been the Cup’s
final race. Many attendees donned red socks, which my host parents explained
was due to a former Team New Zealand captain’s superstitious habit of wearing a
pair. Unfortunately, weather conditions led to numerous delays until the race
was finally postponed for the day, and a very disappointed crowd dispersed.
That week, the final
races played out, and it seemed the country held its breath and then deflated as
slowly but surely the American team outscored Team New Zealand. Normally I
would chant “U-S-A, U-S-A” at an international sporting event, but in this
scenario I was pulling for the other guys, because a victory for the Kiwis
would have meant something to more people here than it ever will in the US. Sailing
plays a tremendous role in the NZ national identity, particularly in Auckland,
which is called “The City of Sails.” My host parents couldn’t fathom an
American who hadn’t even heard of the America’s Cup, and I felt like I was
telling a kid about Santa’s nonexistence when I revealed to them that no one
back home cared about sailing. In short, my seeing New Zealanders’ zeal for
sailing proved surprising, and for a few days after the tough loss, the nation
seemed as if it had just had the wind let out of its sails. Too soon?
The other recent culture events came my way
thanks to the Auckland Heritage Festival, a two-week series of events that
include a variety of activities, most of which are free. An amateur orchestra
concert I attended proved delightful—despite the music selection and its
instrumentalists’ skills. It was themed around the early twentieth century
composer Eric Mareo, whose fame extends more from his being convicted of
murdering his wife than from his compositions. The orchestra and the audience had
the same number of people, but that made for a very intimate atmosphere, and I
couldn’t stop smiling at the group of aging musicians who were just having fun
playing the things they loved. Going to a concert like this was something I
might never try to do back home, and I’m glad I got to see a group of local
folks promoting the arts straight from the heart.
The second Festival
event I attended was another opportunity to see some scenery, but I got to do
so a bit closer to town. I went to a guided walk—advertised as a chance to
discover “natural, archaeological, and cultural heritage”—at Oakley Creek a few
kilometers from my home here. The area follows the long stretch of a reserve
and indeed displays many lovely sights, including Auckland’s only urban
waterfall. Much of the walk was very pleasant, notably the sounds of the stream
and numerous birds chirping. Historically the Maori used the stream for
portage, and their presence survives in a barely discernible midden (a rubbish
pile that archaeologists relish because of how much they reveal about a
culture). Early European settlers later used land near the creek for farming,
and a long, moss-covered rock wall still stands from those days.
However, I was
disappointed by the space’s artificial facets: many areas had been landscaped with
nonnative plants and structures, and a paved walkway extended drolly
throughout. Plus, the walk was more of a garden tour and there were only a
handful of comments about the area’s past, so basically I didn’t get to
discover much history or natural forms. Despite that, I still enjoyed being
outdoors and seeing a great deal of natural beauty, and I saw a space I
probably would not have explored on my own.
I have reflected on
my national and cultural identity ever since I arrived in NZ (and beforehand),
but these recent activities added a little tinder to my thoughts. Seeing a tiny
country unite behind its passion for sailing really surprised me—I think I’ve
only seen Americans get that way about a few Olympians every four years. It made
me wonder what the rest of the world thinks about our sports scene, and it made
me wish there were something as simple as a sailing team that everybody in my
native country could support. Other moments of reflection about national
identity arose in everyday situations, one when I scored a goal in a water polo
game, and part of me wanted to shout, “For America!” Even though we were losing
the game by a significant but never-to-be-disclosed goal count, I felt like
that would seem rude simply because of my nationality. Perhaps no one would
have cared, but the worry that I would confirm the international perception of
Americans as overt braggarts kept my mouth shut. My eldest sister, who herself
lived abroad for years, told me, “You never really understand what America is
until you leave it.” I always believed her statement, but only now have I begun
to really grasp it.
In the vein of
cultural awareness, I haven’t gathered many new terms in an activity-filled,
short week, but ironically they sound as if they spring from a very sedentary
life.
- Lie in – sleep in/late
- Track pants – sweatpants
- Chippies – potato chips
- Chips – potato wedges (fries)
- Pavlova – a dessert made of meringue, topped with cream and kiwi fruit. Supposedly named for a Russian ballerina. I think Kiwis are trained to salivate at the mere mention of it.
My next weeks should
be filled with more exciting events from the Auckland Heritage Festival. I look
forward to finding out what else the free events in this city have to offer.
—Lenora
Saturday, 21 September 2013
September 21, 2013 It's All Espresso Here

The easiest thing to do is go to one of the many cafes I see everywhere, and while trying new ones has been one of my favorite activities since I arrived, the coffee has taken some getting used to. Back home I was accustomed to beginning each day with a huge mug of coffee, but that’s not really an option here since everything is espresso instead of filter coffee. Only twice have I found non-espresso on a menu in the form of French presses some places, but really I’ve almost stopped drinking coffee altogether. Instead I experiment with other hot drinks and often opt for chai lattes—which are even more delicious here than I’ve tasted back home.
While I haven’t yet
attended a live game of either kind of rugby, I had heaps of fun when I watched
a couple of the All Blacks games while at a sports bar. Not only was the game
exciting, but being in a building full of kiwis cheering for their national
team amplified the experience. The games I saw were against Australia and South
Africa, which are apparently particularly hated rivals of the All Blacks, and I
could detect that on the field and from the viewers’ heated reactions to the
game. Imagine the passion American fans spread among all our pro baseball,
basketball, and football, all funneled into a single team. The atmosphere was
great fun, and I think I’ll enjoy becoming more familiar with rugby while I’m
in the country where it’s the national sport.
However, it’s not
just coffee and sports that they do differently here, but something that strikes me is that the
approach to all food and drink is unlike that in the U.S.: I think kiwis really
focus on enjoying their food whereas American culture focuses on the
convenience of food. Here, fast food businesses are noticeably less prevalent,
but grocery stores (small and large) and actual restaurants appear everywhere.
My host parents, self-proclaimed “foodies,” love cooking—which is an activity I
managed to avoid for much of my life—and my host dad is particularly appalled
by my lack of culinary skills. In the last month, though, I’ve cooked and baked
for the kids, and they usually consume the dishes without complaint. (Driving
and communicating were the initial challenges I faced here, but I find
operating ovens and stoves far more frightening territory.) Despite my unfamiliarity
with this approach to food, I do like it, and it’s one thing from my time here
that I hope to carry home with me once I leave.
- bench – kitchen counter top. This means I’m not sure what to call park benches anymore.
- capsicum – bell pepper
- rocket – arugula
- heaps – they use this the way we use “lots”
- dooberry (not sure that has a correct spelling) – doohickey
- bits and bobs – stuff. Also, the name of a store I saw at the mall...that presumably sells stuff
- churr brah – “Sure, bro”; an informal expression of agreement
- ta – thanks
- crikey – interjection
Sometimes
when I wake up in the morning, I’m still surprised to realize I’m living in
another country. I laugh to think how the Lenora from a year ago would react if
told that I’d be where I am today. Doing something like this was something I’d
dreamed of doing but never thought I’d actually have the courage to try. Here’s
to more fun in the near future!
—Lenora
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